I've ranted and complained about this issue for years, and now I've got a whole new experience to talk about.

There's one thing that I think all the best dads-to-be do and I want to talk about it.

Dad is a useful tool, but we don't stop to think about the human who is also going through a fundamentally life-altering experience.

This is like holding water in your hand. You've got to be firm and steady, but relaxed and calm all at the same time.